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Tuesday, November 22, 2005

Heil PMS

Not the monthlies -- but Pre Marital Sex.
Those of you from India/TN will be aware of the Khusboo-premarital sex comment, and ensuing scandal!!
I am rather sure that everyone of those protestors have either had premarital sex or had desperately wanted to.
Now this is my take -- I am all for it. I think it's great. I think even those who are going in for arranged marriage should do it with their spouse-to-be.
Simple reason -- sex is great. And with someone you are committed too, it becomes even greater. But marriage brings with it certain inconveniences -- that's the truth. And once kids get into the picture -- forget it!! No naked frolicking in the middle of the day, experiments, etc etc.
There is something absolutely seductive about sneaky sex... and you can have that only before marriage.
I am not advocating open free sex with every person you meet. No sir. I am far too conservative for that. Just advocating fun with someone you love, without worrying about whether or not he/she will love you 10years from now.
And yes, it pays to be safe. No two ways about that.
And Khushboo, Suhasini, whoever... keep talking ladies. You speak more sense than those hypocritical, moralistic morons who probably have 10 mistresses in anycase. And the protesting women for sure are those married to such men.

3 comments:

Vinayak said...

Results of the controversy : Kushboo and company

When you mentioned the Kushboo, Suhasini issue I thought of adding this

1. Pre Marital sex is here!. That's the truth. There is no denying it. That's the gist of what Kushboo said (not me!) Its NOT just metros or Mumbai or Delhi that the "pre marital sex" is happening. There are also extra marital going on all over India

2. Tamil Nadu is NO exception. There are surveys that show that approx 40% of college students have had sex before marriage !!! Now please don't come back and tell me ONLY young MEN had sex, and that too all by themselves...

3. Kushboo being a film industry and talk show personality is AWARE of the situation. She spilled it out.

4. Tamil movies have as much sex portrayed in them as bollywood movies. In fact there is a great competition there in showing more sex

5. What happens in Indian cities gets noticed and has a multiplier effect. It's soon followed by others in smaller towns and villages

6. The dress, the dance, the music... the cinema ... these have always moved from cities to towns and from towns to villages

7. So would this "sex" thing move to every place in India.

8. Please note that I am NOT supporting Pre marital sex. I'm just stating the ground reality. I suppose men should stop thinking women are all dying to live as virgins and get married to the one and only man on the wedding day

9. Womens lib is calling this "freedom of expression" and *supporting Kushboo*
http://www.hindu.com/2005/11/18/stories/2005111817091400.htm

10. So to me it looks like Kushboo has a point. Men who expect their wife to be a virgin are fools

11. It is important to note that the MEN are against the women who spoke thus, rather than analyzing the statistics and the reasons behind kushboo's statement .. (i.e.) prevalence of pre marital sex in society today



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Vinayak said...

If you permit... I'd like to blog your above post ..


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umm oviya said...

sure!